Wednesday, March 30, 2011

the truth

I almost forgot my husband's birthday.

Please, don't let that be any measure of my love for him.  Evidence here

But, this is my story.  Exactly as it goes.

I had been thinking about Honey's birthday since the beginning of the month.  For several weeks I'd been thinking about some projects to make, even planting a couple gift idea seeds to others for him.  But the time simply got away from me.  I clearly have too much on my plate these days.

And last week, this happened:

Husband:  (going through the mail) Oh, this must be a birthday card.

Me:  (deer in headlights, panic-stricken, quite visible to my husband) Uh.  What is...(trailing off)

Husband:  What is today's date?  Is that what you were going to ask?  (with a chuckle and a small smile, not quite a smirk) Don't worry, my birthday isn't until next week.

Me:  Oh.  (relief obviously washing over my face)

Husband:  You forgot, didn't you?

Me:  (desperately, unsuccessfully feigning like I didn't) No.

Husband:  You would have felt terrible.

Me:  Oh, oh yes. 

Husband:  You're fine.

Me:  Good (but having a nagging feeling I was still forgetting...)

Then later, I remember.

Me:  Honey, this is what a doofus I am.  I have scheduled a work dinner. On. Your. Birthday.

Husband:  (with an understanding smile) Oh Honey, that is okay.

And, my friends, here is one reason my husband is such a great guy.  He loves me, even when I am clearly not at my best.

Though don't think that this fast-thinking, crafty Mama didn't pull through.  Oh I did.

Handcrafted present -- with little hands helping even!  Wrapped in reusable fabric wrap.








Homemade Lemon Squares, my husband's favorite.


And when I say home-made I mean "have to grate the butter to create a yummy crust" homemade.





Yes, that is a little, in a dog costume, helping out.

And finally, a love letter.

After all, the best gift I could give this husband of mine are words I so love to describe my love for him.

Happy Birthday Honey.

Next year I won't forget.

Monday, March 28, 2011

growing older

This is my husband.

He is getting older, just celebrated a birthday.

I will always be a wee bit older than him, which must mean that I keep him feeling youthful.

In this iPhone photo we are on a date.

It is the middle of the day, we are at a Chipotle for lunch, with a coupon for two free burritos.

That is about the kind of dates we can arrange these days.  And that is pretty okay, because we have a boatload of fun at home.

We laugh.  Alot.

Which is good, because with three kids, we could be crying alot instead.

But we don't.

And we eat well.  Very well.

All because of my husband.

He makes stuff like this.



And this.


And this.


And this.





And this.



And...well, there are simply too many good things he makes to show pictures of everything.  Yes, he is so good he should be a guest blogger here.  I haven't convinced him yet, maybe you can.  But believe me, everything he sets his whisk and spices to is fabulous.

Except one unfortunate chicken dish back in 1999.  Literally, that was the last time he miss-cooked a meal.

He is amazing.  I love him.  And not just because he feeds me.

Happy Birthday Honey!  Thanks for making your birthday cake. 

Just kidding, I totally made it with the kids.  Maybe didn't taste as good as his, but still, I made it.

Sunday, March 27, 2011

corners of my home {color}

We've recently been doing some painting and furniture moving and cleaning out.  Whenever something is changed or rearranged it somehow feels new and gives us a new way of being in the space.  I love how just when the house is feeling too small or over-run with the stuff of a family of five, a simple move of furniture, or hanging kids art or putting a bookshelf in the hallway can make me fall in love with our house again.

After all, this should be a space that I love, even with all of its worn places and shoe piles and never-ending need for sweeping. 

One thing that I have always loved and have relished in our house is color.


We have lots of color about. 













And then there is this.  I discovered this little plastic toy monster on the base of our dining room table, which is a pretty fun color too.

I have no idea how he got there.  Maybe one of the kids.

He looks perfectly at home, don't you think?

I hope he likes color too.

Friday, March 25, 2011

this moment

Joining SouleMama, and many others, in this weekly tradition of pausing to savor a moment from the week.

Simple. Lovely. Extraordinary.


You can also visit me here at 40 words where I share an image and text in honor of my turning 40 this year.

Feel free to leave a comment and link to your moment!

Have a wonderful weekend!
Claudine

photographers

I take some pictures every day.  Well, actually, I take a lot of pictures every day.

And...I've been known to carry my camera around the house, setting it down close by if I think there might be some action to capture.  I basically take it with me everywhere outside of the house as well.  And when I don't, I usually end up wishing I had.  It has happened that I have my camera on my lap as I'm driving.  You never know when you will need it in an instant and inside the purse on the passenger seat just isn't quick enough.




My kids have seen me in action for some time now and, of course, want to do what their Mama is doing.  So I share my camera with them.   However, there are three rules for taking pictures with Mama's camera:

1.  Ask permission.

2.  Always put the strap around your neck (admittedly to get some shots I don't always have the strap around my neck, so this falls into the "Do as I say, don't do as I do" category.)

3.  Always hold the camera with two hands (and, reluctantly, this also falls into the "Do as I say, blah blah blah" category.)

Hmmph, so much for being a good role model.

Anyway.  I am always curious as to what they are interested in photographing.  Their kid's eye view can capture some neat things in our every day.

Some photos I end up deleting, because really one photo of the living room rug is just as good as the 23 others that were taken from the exact same spot, don't you think?

Though some photos I definitely keep.  Sometimes because they are fantastic photos.  Sometimes because they remind me of what captures their attention at these unique ages.

Funny, any photos I have of them using my camera have been taken with my iPhone, which is usually close at hand too.

Here is the first time I recall Big Brother using the camera.


This is what he was taking a picture of.

Big Brother has gotten quite a bit of camera experience and can be called upon to take photos whenever I need to be in the picture.

Case in point.


We have such big smiles on our faces because he stood back so so far and kept moving back, but then extending the lens out to get a closer picture.  I say, learning the mechanics of it all.

He has also really enjoyed some photography adventuring where he simply goes out to see what he can find.





It is fascinating to see what he comes back with.






Little Brother started his photography a bit younger with some extensive experience with the remote control.

He did have a bit of a hard time figuring out exactly where to direct it, at one point holding it up to his baby sister's face since he was taking a picture of her.




But eventually he got it. Sort of.


He since has broadened his repertoire to include still life.



Earlier this week he announced, "I am going upstairs to take pictures of the new red couch."  You go.


Now Baby Sister has begun.  I realized she was ready when, without even being able to ask permission, she took hold of the camera and slung the strap around her neck.

She watches, that one.  Good trait in a photographer.


Her photos tend to be those of the living room carpet.


Yes, the other seven look exactly the same.

Sometimes she photographs my hand on the mouse, sitting at the computer.
Wait, I've deleted all 700 of those.

When she can't get her hands on the real thing, she will make do with the camera Christmas tree ornament.


Though she did capture this great portrait of her brother here.


I have a feeling that sooner or later, one camera won't be enough for this family.  And that is perfectly fine with me.

Oh, I forgot to mention Daddy.  He rarely takes pictures.

They usually get deleted.


Well, most of them anyway.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

special

Earlier this week, we celebrated a very special birthday in our house.  March 20 is the birthday of Mister Rogers.

Yes, that Mister Rogers.  The ultimate champion of kindness and respect and love for people.

I only vaguely remember watching Mister Rogers' Neighborhood as a kid, though I know I must have liked it.

Well as a grown up, I love Mr. Rogers' Neighborhood.  With a capital L. O. V. E.

Watching episodes of Mister Rogers' Neighborhood as a grown up has changed me.  For the better.

He speaks to everyone with a compassion that is undeniable.  Oh, I wish to be that compassionate.

He is genuine.  He is caring.  He is special.

And anytime you watch an episode of Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, you are reminded that you, too, are special.  It just isn't kids that need that message.  Mamas who are having a tough day need that message too.

During his life Fred Rogers' also did quite a bit of writing, both for children and adults.  Each book a treasure in its own way as he promotes respect and understanding.  I have a copy of You are Special which is a compilation of his wisdom.  Almost every line in that book has been underlined by me, because almost every line speaks to my heart as a mother, and as a person.

Incredible, he was.

This past summer our family had the great fortune to meet some of the neighbors in his neighborhood.

Mayor Maggie.



Mr. McFeely.


Neighbor Abor.


They were amazing.

Looking at each person whom they met.  Really looking.  Talking with them, asking their name and wanting to know more about them. Taking their time with each and every person.

They not only made you feel special, they affirmed you are special.


And as they signed autographs for you, each child got to sign an autograph for them!

Sure making the kids feel special.


Check out the Fred Rogers Company.  The good people there carry on the spirit and legacy of Mister Rogers in so many ways.  Trust me, you'll be a better person for it.